drama

Ayt so, I have been talking to Lisa every now and again here on my space for almost the past 4 years since we broke up.  Now let it be known that I got nothing but love for her and her family, and i know I fucked up some things and made huge mistakes when I was with her.  But, all in all, she is a great friend and a wonderful person, and i am thankfull to have spent the time with her that I did.  Having a 5 year relationship is not something easily forgotten, agreed?

Now, some new pictures got posted to her profile.  And in one of those pictures, she looked really good to me.  She looked thinner than when I left the states and she looked super happy.  A while back she told me that her boyfriend was cooking her dinner everynight.  So I made the comment something to the effect of  "you look thin Lisa, are you sure your boyfriend is cooking dinner for you?"  Can you see the jest in that?

So, then I get a message from her boyfriend using her account that goes exactly like this:

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To the pussy

Look, your lil remarks shouldn't be coming out of your head ok. you don't know me and really..... your better off not knowing nothing about me.. so i suggest u keep your comments to yourself ok.. you were too much off a crack head you would reaized the best thing that u lost... so don't go hating because I'm sure your cousin- slash your girl, sick bastered would not like to know why your e-mailing my fiance ok... so go fuck your cousin and have many more kids... amd hope you don't come back to jersey amd i find out... insted of mike kicking your ass you'll get a jeresey beat down from me...fucking bitch ass mother fucker.. even though youR IN ANOTHER COUNTRY DOESN't mean i won't find u.... drezy
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That's some raw shit right? thats some real threatening stuff right?  Like he is really gonna come and find me and hurt me? Hahaha he was in a jealous rage.  lolz  well I was in the typing mood, with all my composure maintained and i replied this to him:

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Hahaha. You're so cute when you're mad! Come on now, we don't know each other, and all that mess you be talking is just reckless. You're an internet tough guy now huh? All that shit talking is a waste of breath. You must care about Lisa a lot, and I'm actually glad for it, because she deserves a good guy. Don't be jealous because I have a word or two for her. The truth of the matter is, you just met her. I've known her for more than 10 years, I been through more with her than you can imagine, and I consider her a lifelong friend. And before you shoot off at the mouth for something you know nothing about, get your facts straight; I'll email whomever I wish, and I assure you, all it is is for good will, for friendship, and there's nothing you can do about it.

You can't be threatening me son. You can't do a thing to me even if I did come back to dirty jersey, what you gonna do? what? You gonna assault me? Dude im on the straight and narrow, ill just call the cops and they'll take you away. You gonna come find me in this country? pay some 2000 bucks for a plane ticket to come kick my ass? please, spare yourself this childishness. What would you suppose would be Lisa's reaction if she knew you had at it with me? Do you honestly think she would be happy about it? Think about peace for Lisa's sake.

Just do yourself a favor and take good care of Lisa. That's the only realistic thing you can do. Talking stupid shit to me solves nothing, and gets you nowhere with me nor her. She loves you a lot, or so she tells me. Don't be mad cause I still wanna be friends with her. My intentions are only for her good will. She was a big part of my life for a long time, and it's something not easily forgotten. You should know cause you are there right now. Lisa is special and wonderful, and for her to choose you must say something about the good in you. So for that I'll just disregard your past mailing. Let me know if you guys are around the way out here, you can stay in the crib and have a nice vacation. 

My wife knows all my secrets. Oh and she isn't my cousin bro, she is my aunt-in-law, no blood relation. And there is nothing sick about our relationship. I'm actually married to her you know, she not just my fiancé. She knows everything about me. She knows I stay in touch with people, up to and including Lisa. Can you say the same thing? Evidently you are reading her mail , spying and prying, which some would consider to be deceitful activity. Got trust issues? Don't be mad at Lisa for all this, it's not worth it. It's just friendship. Lisa don't want nothing from me that might be making its way through your jealous little mind mind, ask yourself,"can a girl have friends? can I trust her? You should be able to trust her if she is truly gonna be your wife. And you should let her have friends other than you to maintain good social health, even spouses do not have all that a person needs for social health.

Oh and that remark was because she looks like she lost weight. She looks good. And she also told me that you be cooking her dinner every night. if you can't understand the jest in that, I don't know about you then, dreazy. I said it in my own way and I'm sorry if it offended you there tiger, but, you gotta get a grip. Be good to people, especially Lisa.

Peace. 

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I left it at that.

Now I didn't say this to him because it's not in my nature to directly engage someone nor is it me to be the one to talk a whole bunch of toughguy nonsense, but I have to vent this here in my blog; this little dude doesn't have the speed nor the strength to beat me in a fair fight nor does this 'mike' which he talks about.  I know it for sure.  I am in the best shape of my life.  My last kickboxing class was like a week ago, and I exercise daily.  I can easily bench 250 leg press over 800 and curl more than a 125.  This guy would probably not stand a chance lest he hath a gun or blade with him.  I really wish this guy would get in my face in person.  I'd love to try my skills with the pads off.  All my fights nowadays are so relaxed.  It's more for exercise than competition, and when it gets too rough, they are like "take it easy man".

It's funny really how people get bent out of shape and talk shit about what they know nothing about.  And they make threats like "ill find you"..  yeah fucking right.  Im 10000 miles away and he is gonna come here and mig me for a comment i made to my friend his "fiance".  I'll pick him up from the airport if he wants, hahaha.  On the other hand, if I wanted, there are still crack heads and ex-crackheads that I know that still live around where this guy lives.  And I know exactly where this guy lives.  

But for real, I'm an intellectual.  I ain't some gangster. I'm getting a masters degree fool!  I just think this was an interesting little tidbit of life.  The philosophical lesson we all can learn from it is to stay calm in the face of jealousy;  it makes you look very dimly lit in your cranium.